HOMETHE LORD'S POET POEM: Windows to Christmas



STORY: Linda  CHRISTMAS MEMORIES: STORY: Bobby
STORY: Christmas, 1991 SHARE MINE-------------FIND YOURS STORY: Christmas, 1985



LINDA


I had a dear friend years ago. We were very close, but we had a problem, of sorts:  it seemed as if each year, no matter what gift I made her for Christmas, she bought me a gift that was similar. The year I made candies, she gave me a Whitman Sampler; when I made cookies, she gave me cookies from the local bakery; I made her a set of glasses from soda bottles the year she bought me a set of glasses. Another year we exchanged homemade cookies. We only had those four Christmases as she's gone now, but I wonder how many Christmases would have passed before we hit one with dissimilar gifts!

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BOBBY


During my junior and senior years of high school, my very best friend was a boy (?!) named Bobby.  We were very close, sharing the pain and sorrow as easily as the joys, hopes and our dreams. One day, Bobby saved my life just by being my friend (that's a long story and not such a good memory, but he DID save me from death one summer night).


Bobby was an artist. He did lovely sketches. He was also from a single parent family, so there was seldom finances for proper art supplies. My senior year I had a small excess of funds near Christmas. With the help of an art teacher at school, I purchased a sketch pad and proper tools for Bobby for Christmas. He was so touched by my consideration that he gave me a locket for Christmas. But it wasn't just any locket, this locket had been given to him by his grandmother to be given to his first girlfriend. I knew about the locket (that was one of the secrets we'd shared). I was deeply touched by his sacrifice, especially since I knew who he'd been saving it for (another secret shared). That locket has remained my most treasured possession and is a constant reminder of Bobby's friendship and God's abiding love for me.


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CHRISTMAS, 1991


The first thing I need to share here is that Christmas was seldom a happy time for me. I dreaded it coming and wished I could wipe it off the calendar. Many things happened in 1991 and by mid October I was actually looking forward to Christmas with joy and excitement. For Christmas that year, I received many nice gifts: roses galore, chocolate covered cherries, cookies, jewelry. But I discovered three very special gifts among those I opened that Christmas Day. One made me cry, one made me laugh and one continues to bring hours of pleasure.


A set of glass bells hanging from a brass ornament brought the tears. It is a lovely ornament that is also a windchime. It wasn't the beauty of the gift, the cost or even the thoughtfulness of the giver that caused those tears. Rather, the words minutely engraved in petite, precise letters across one side of the brass ornament were the culprit. There, in careful script were the words, "Kathi's first real Christmas-1991."

A daily calendar is responsible for the laughter. The spiral bound, stand up calendar has one page for each day. Each sheet contains both a prayer and a thought for the day. Many of the thoughts are absolutely outrageous! Since the calendar only gives month and date, this is a gift that will serve to draw my attention ever to God while it also brings tears of laughter for many years to come.

The third gift is a simple child's toy that will supply hours of pleasure to a child who has never grown up: me!
It's nothing fancy nor was it very expensive but. . . it is something that has always fascinated me and thrilled me: a kaleidoscope! And penned on the side is a very apt poem that will serve to keep my mind centered on the Light as my eye is focused on the light filtered throught the lens of the kaleidoscope.


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CHRISTMAS, 1990


Due to financial difficulties in 1990, I decided to bake and sell my cookies at Christmas. I received many orders. I laid in the necessary supplies and began to bake on Thanksgiving. My total baking that year was about 150 dozen cookies. That's nearly two thousand cookies! So what did I receive from my secret prayer partner? Right! Homemade cookies! The folks at church hoped I would give them all away since I'd been overwhelmed by cookies, but did I? NO!! Oh, I shared a few, but most I ate myself. After all, I'd made two thousand cookies and had not been able to eat even one because they'd been baked to order. That was punishment for a crime not committed! I think a little selfishness was justified that year!


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WINDOWS TO CHRISTMAS


As Christmas comes
I see vignettes
Of memories
I won't forget.
So many scenes
Now framed in time
Of windows to
Past Christmas, mine;
Also of scenes
That have not come
Of Christmases
That will be fun
As I look through
To a future time,
Of memories
That will be mine.


             Kathi Phillips


 
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